{"id":611,"date":"2009-07-17T11:33:07","date_gmt":"2009-07-17T11:33:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/2009\/07\/17\/watching-fish\/"},"modified":"2009-07-17T11:33:07","modified_gmt":"2009-07-17T11:33:07","slug":"watching-fish","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/2009\/07\/17\/watching-fish\/","title":{"rendered":"Watching Fish"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Back when the summer was just getting started, we had some house guests. More specifically, our guest was my six-year old&#8217;s best friend &#8211; a girl who had moved out of our neighborhood about a year ago.<\/p>\n<p>During the visit, the two reconnected (as they always do) just as though they&#8217;d never been apart. <\/p>\n<p>This tale takes place on one day during that visit, when we had some other friends over as well. I was in the den on the couch at the time, trying to stay out of the way of all the playing. I noticed one little girl, also a good friend of my son&#8217;s, looking at the fish tank. I walked over to see if she had any questions.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What&#8217;s that one?&#8221; she asked, pointing at a striped fish.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;That&#8217;s actually called a zebra fish,&#8221; I said. &#8220;Can you guess why?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Cause of the stripes,&#8221; she nodded. &#8220;And that one?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;That&#8217;s called a neon, it&#8217;s-&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>My six-year old pushed his way between us at this point, shouldering me sideways and out of the way. I let myself be shouldered and stood back a few steps.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Did you see that one?&#8221; he asked her, pointing at a catfish. &#8220;We call him SwirlyEye. See?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He has a swirly eye!&#8221; she said. &#8220;What about that one?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>At this point, I saw our houseguest. She had noticed my son talking to the other girl. As they talked, she drifted closer.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;That one&#8217;s a meanie,&#8221; my son said, pointing to a barb. &#8220;He used to bite the other fish, but he doesn&#8217;t now.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He turned nice?&#8221; the little girl asked.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Mm-hmm.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The houseguest stepped between them and used her shoulder to shove the other girl out of the way. &#8220;Really?&#8221; she asked my son. &#8220;He turned nice?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He nodded at her, not giving any sign that he noticed the girl standing beside him had just changed identity.&#8221;Yup,&#8221; he said. &#8220;And that one did too. They&#8217;re the same kind of fish.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The girl who&#8217;d been shoved aside stood up and looked at them. Then she looked at me. I smiled and shrugged. She looked at my son, then at me, and giggled. <\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Cool fish, huh?&#8221; I asked.<\/p>\n<p>The giggles turned into a full-blown belly laugh, and she walked off to find my other son.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Back when the summer was just getting started, we had some house guests. More specifically, our guest was my six-year old&#8217;s best friend &#8211; a girl who had moved out of our neighborhood about a year ago. During the visit, the two reconnected (as they always do) just as though they&#8217;d never been apart. 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