{"id":275,"date":"2015-07-24T12:38:01","date_gmt":"2015-07-24T16:38:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/?p=275"},"modified":"2015-11-29T22:59:24","modified_gmt":"2015-11-29T22:59:24","slug":"write-happy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/2015\/07\/24\/write-happy\/","title":{"rendered":"Write Happy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Anyone who has ever done phone sales can\u00a0tell you one of the most important rules is also one of the weirdest: smile.<\/p>\n<p>Your voice sounds different on the phone when you&#8217;re smiling. It&#8217;s true. I don&#8217;t know why it&#8217;s true. I don&#8217;t know how it&#8217;s true. I just know that it <em>is<\/em> true. People can hear when you&#8217;re smiling, particularly if you&#8217;re genuinely happy.<\/p>\n<p>The same is true for me when I&#8217;m\u00a0writing. It doesn&#8217;t matter if I&#8217;m writing ad copy or fiction, my words end up sounding different when\u00a0I&#8217;m feeling depressed or pressured.<\/p>\n<p>Back in the mid 2000&#8217;s (I think 2006?) a University of New South Wales Psychology Professor named Joe Forgas did a study proving that unhappy writers were more effective. According to his findings, unhappy people are more detail-oriented.\u00a0I suppose that could be true, but for me, the challenge of paying attention to details is easier to overcome than the far more subtle challenge of tone.<\/p>\n<div class=\"wpcalloutright\">What about the famous unhappy writers, the Dickinsons and Poes of the world? They&#8217;re amazing,\u00a0but I still don&#8217;t want to be like them.<\/div>\n<p>Staying happy isn&#8217;t just about tone, though, it&#8217;s also about sanity. Writing a novel is a marathon that requires sacrifice and focus. To succeed, you have\u00a0to spend\u00a0a lot of time alone with a keyboard.\u00a0Don&#8217;t have those long hours also be spent in misery.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why I say &#8220;Write Happy!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Here are some tips that help me:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>The cookie stack.<\/strong> Stack a pile of your favorite cookies next to your keyboard, and establish milestones\u00a0that allow you to eat\u00a0a cookie. Written five good pages? Eat a cookie. Fixed that chapter that has been driving you crazy? Cookie for you!<\/li>\n<li><strong>Read out loud.<\/strong>\u00a0This is a good idea for a lot of other reasons, too. I&#8217;m listing it here because there&#8217;s nothing like hearing the sound of your own writing when it&#8217;s going well. It&#8217;s an instant\u00a0pick-me-up. Also, spending eight hours a day in total silence isn&#8217;t healthy.\u00a0You may be talking to yourself, but at least you&#8217;re talking to someone!<\/li>\n<li><strong>Get up.<\/strong> Every once in a while, get up and stretch. Do some pushups or jumping jacks or something. The human body wasn&#8217;t built to sit on a chair all day. You need to get your blood pumping and activate your physical self.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Toys!<\/strong> I remember a member\u00a0of my critique group saying that\u00a0she could picture me using toy airplanes to work out the details of one of my dragon fights. She meant it as a joke, but she was absolutely correct. I do use toy airplanes. I also use my old foil from my fencing\u00a0days, toy dinosaurs,\u00a0little metal figurines, toy castles, building blocks, and even a \u00a0plastic meditating Rafiki. He&#8217;s who I turn to when everything seems to be going wrong.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Be silly:<\/strong>\u00a0So what if you&#8217;re all alone? That doesn&#8217;t mean you have to be boring.\u00a0Silly hats are a simple non-interrupting way to take away the oppressiveness of a long writing session.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Enjoy your writing!<\/strong> Hopefully, I didn&#8217;t have to add this one. If you&#8217;re\u00a0not enjoying the actual act of writing, you need to\u00a0do some serious soul-searching. Yes, there are times when you want to throw your keyboard out the window, but if you&#8217;re not having fun writing, you need to find a way to change that.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>What do you think? How do you help yourself write happy?<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/WritingHat.jpg\" alt=\"Writing Hat\" width=\"300\" height=\"296\" \/><br \/>\nOne of my favorite writing hats!<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you writing happy?  I am. 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