{"id":2022,"date":"2013-09-02T09:20:12","date_gmt":"2013-09-02T14:20:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/stories.daddytales.com\/?p=2022"},"modified":"2013-09-02T09:20:12","modified_gmt":"2013-09-02T14:20:12","slug":"a-reputation-on-the-line","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/2013\/09\/02\/a-reputation-on-the-line\/","title":{"rendered":"A reputation on the line"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The other day, my wife called to let me know she and the boys were stopping at Jeremiah&#8217;s for a treat. Jeremiah&#8217;s is a place that sells Italian Ice swirled with soft-serve ice cream (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.jeremiahsice.com\/\">unsponsored link here<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Can we bring you some?&#8221; my wife asked.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Thanks, but I&#8217;m fine.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>There was a pause.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m sorry,&#8221; she said. &#8220;I didn&#8217;t hear. What flavor did you want?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Nothing, thanks. I&#8217;m good.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Really?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Really. I&#8217;m in the middle of this project, and I want to stick with it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I heard her say &#8220;he doesn&#8217;t want any,&#8221; to the boys, followed by their shocked exclamation.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Are you really sure?&#8221; she asked me again.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I&#8217;m good,&#8221; I said. &#8220;Really.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I don&#8217;t want any either!&#8221; My youngest son shouted.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Hold on.&#8221; my wife said.<\/p>\n<p>I listened to a muffled conversation on the other end, then my wife spoke on the phone again. &#8220;He&#8217;s convinced that the only reason you would say no is if you had something better planned.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I laughed.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He kind of has a point,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Not this time,&#8221; I said. &#8220;I&#8217;m just working. I want to stay focused.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Okay,&#8221; she said. &#8220;No complaining when we come home and you don&#8217;t have anything.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Okay.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I have to admit that I did have a perverse urge to race out to the store so I could put together a fantastic dessert before they got home. I resisted.<\/p>\n<p>Next time, though, I&#8217;m just going to say &#8220;yes.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some dads are known for their abilities as a mechanic, or how well they fix things around the house. Others are experts at sports or fishing. Me? Well, my expertise is somewhat different. Enjoy!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[123,122,119],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2022","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-daddytales-cute","category-daddytales-n","category-daddytales-funny"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6DpYi-wC","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2022","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2022"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2022\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2022"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2022"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2022"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}