{"id":187,"date":"2006-07-03T12:05:14","date_gmt":"2006-07-03T12:05:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/2006\/07\/03\/the-pink-phase\/"},"modified":"2006-07-03T12:05:14","modified_gmt":"2006-07-03T12:05:14","slug":"the-pink-phase","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/2006\/07\/03\/the-pink-phase\/","title":{"rendered":"The Pink Phase"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>About two years ago, C and I were taking a walk when he suddenly had something important to tell me. I knew it was important because he stopped, looked up at me, and said in a very serious voice, &#8220;Daddy.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I stopped too. We were, after all, holding hands. &#8220;Yes?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I love pink.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ah. Okay.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>This is not exactly what a dad wants to hear coming from his two year old son&#8217;s mouth. Not that there&#8217;s anything wrong with pink, mind you. Even so, after a little while of walking, I said &#8220;my favorite color&#8217;s purple.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yes,&#8221; he nodded. &#8220;Mine&#8217;s pink.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>And so it has been for the past two years. Just recently, however, we had a breakthrough, of sorts. I was buckling him into his car seat when he suddenly looked up at me, appearing very upset. &#8220;Oh No!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;What is it? What&#8217;s wrong?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I lost my pink!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Your pink?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yes. It&#8217;s gone! I lost my pink!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I went through the list of all his toys that I could remember had pink in them, asking him if he&#8217;d lost them. <\/p>\n<p>As I started asking, however, he overrode me with &#8220;No, no, no&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Finally, I shut up and he said &#8220;I like purple now.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Purple?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yep. Purple.&#8221; Deep sigh. &#8220;I lost my pink.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>At long last, I knew what he was talking about. It was a good feeling. &#8220;Ah. Well, you can like both purple and pink, if you want to.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No. I lost my pink. I like purple now.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Hooray!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>About two years ago, C and I were taking a walk when he suddenly had something important to tell me. I knew it was important because he stopped, looked up at me, and said in a very serious voice, &#8220;Daddy.&#8221; I stopped too. We were, after all, holding hands. &#8220;Yes?&#8221; &#8220;I love pink.&#8221; &#8220;Ah. Okay.&#8221; [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[123,118,119],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-187","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-daddytales-cute","category-daddytales-c","category-daddytales-funny"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6DpYi-31","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/187","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=187"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/187\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=187"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=187"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=187"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}