{"id":177,"date":"2006-06-09T12:50:49","date_gmt":"2006-06-09T12:50:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/2006\/06\/09\/whats-he-look-like\/"},"modified":"2006-06-09T12:50:49","modified_gmt":"2006-06-09T12:50:49","slug":"whats-he-look-like","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/2006\/06\/09\/whats-he-look-like\/","title":{"rendered":"What&#8217;s he look like?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>With kids, sometimes, the problem isn&#8217;t getting straight answers, it&#8217;s getting relevant answers.<\/p>\n<p>For example, I&#8217;ve been trying to get our oldest son to be a little more observant.&nbsp;At dinner each evening, we discuss what we did during the day. Usually, these are fairly awkward discussions, as C still occasionally gets &#8220;past&#8221; and &#8220;present&#8221; confused. If I ask if he went swimming, he&#8217;s just as likely to say &#8220;hooray! Let&#8217;s go swimming!&#8221; as he is to answer.<\/p>\n<p>The other night, however, we had a pretty good discussion. That day, they had all gone to McDonald&#8217;s for lunch and to play in the playground. He&nbsp;was telling me&nbsp;all about it, when he mentioned that he met another boy there and that they had played together.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Oh yeah?&#8221; I said, &#8220;What did he look like?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Ummmm&#8230;.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Did he have brown hair or yellow hair?&#8221; We haven&#8217;t gotten to the word &#8220;blonde&#8221; yet.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Um&#8230; yellow hair.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Was he tall or short?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;He was, he was&#8230; He had two eyes.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Huh?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Yup, and two arms and two legs and a nose and a mouth,&#8221; he was picking up steam now, &#8220;and two hands and two feet and&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;So he looked just like you?&#8221; I interrupted.<\/p>\n<p>He thought about that for a second and then nodded. &#8220;Yep. Just like me. And just like you, too!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>True.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>With kids, sometimes, the problem isn&#8217;t getting straight answers, it&#8217;s getting relevant answers. For example, I&#8217;ve been trying to get our oldest son to be a little more observant.&nbsp;At dinner each evening, we discuss what we did during the day. Usually, these are fairly awkward discussions, as C still occasionally gets &#8220;past&#8221; and &#8220;present&#8221; confused. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[123,118],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-177","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-daddytales-cute","category-daddytales-c"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6DpYi-2R","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/177","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=177"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/177\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=177"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=177"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=177"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}