{"id":158,"date":"2013-04-04T09:27:22","date_gmt":"2013-04-04T13:27:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/?p=158"},"modified":"2013-04-04T09:27:22","modified_gmt":"2013-04-04T13:27:22","slug":"on-communicating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/2013\/04\/04\/on-communicating\/","title":{"rendered":"On Communicating"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Okay, so before I post this one, I have to point out that I have spent the past two days down with a sinus infection. That kind of sleep time, accompanied by its fever dreams, always leaves me with strange and unusual thoughts.<\/p>\n<p>This particular thought started with something I said to a group of kids three days ago about how reading a book is different from every other form of entertainment. What makes reading so powerful (for me) is that the story happens in the reader&#8217;s head. The writer creates the story and writes it down, and you might think that the story would be experienced by everyone the same. It&#8217;s not, though. Each person who reads your story is going to experience it differently. It&#8217;s like a conversation that happens between the writer and the reader, one that happens inside the reader&#8217;s brain.<\/p>\n<p>Crazy, right? It&#8217;s true, though.<\/p>\n<p>Now that we&#8217;ve got that down, here&#8217;s the realization that came to me in the wee hours of the morning: writing is an inherently solitary thing. When you&#8217;re writing a book, you&#8217;re mostly in your own world for a significant number of hours each day. There are no friendly visits from office mates, no phone calls being answered. It&#8217;s just you and your book.<\/p>\n<p>It would be easy to think that this kind of lifestyle would lend itself more to introverts and hermits, people who don&#8217;t communicate well or don&#8217;t want to communicate.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not sure that&#8217;s accurate, though. As a writer, you may not be talking much, \u00a0but you are spending all your time trying to communicate. Instead of chatting with a dozen people each day, however, you&#8217;re reaching out to thousands, or maybe even hundreds of thousands.<\/p>\n<p>Interesting, huh? So the next time you hear a story about a writer who&#8217;s an introvert, or a recluse, or doesn&#8217;t do interviews, keep in mind that communication is what he or she does all the time. It&#8217;s just in a format that is a little less obvious.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This thought started with a presentation to a bunch of fifth graders and was finished off by late night fever dreams. What do you think? Am I right?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[3,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-158","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life","category-writing"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p6DpYi-2y","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/158","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=158"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/158\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=158"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=158"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.pat-matthews.com\/stories\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=158"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}